MENTAL PERFORMANCE & RESILIENCE COACHING FOR FEMALE ATHLETES

Helping female athletes feel steady, supported, and resilient — not just successful.
Because thriving in athletics should not come at the cost of feeling well.

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You are driven. Competitive. Dedicated.

You show up early, stay late, and push yourself to improve — but behind the scenes, it might feel overwhelming.

Many female athletes experience:

  • Performance anxiety

  • Fear of making mistakes

  • Pressure to meet expectations

  • Loss of confidence

  • Burnout or mental fatigue

  • Struggles balancing school, sport, and identity

Mental performance coaching helps athletes build resilience, strengthen confidence, and develop the tools needed to perform with clarity and control.

You don’t have to navigate this alone.

Support for Female Athletes Navigating Pressure, Performance, and Confidence

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  • Sports performance anxiety

  • Confidence and self-belief

  • Mental resilience training

  • Managing stress and pressure

  • Injury recovery mindset

  • Burnout prevention

  • Athlete identity development

  • Body image and confidence

  • Focus and concentration skills

  • Transition support for athletes

Mental Performance & Resilience Coaching for Athletes Includes Support With:

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Meet Sonja Funtanilla, MSW, CSW

Mental health therapist, former Division 1 athlete, and coach of high-performance female athletes.

As a six-time state champion, Junior Olympian, and full-ride Division 1 athlete, I understand the mental and emotional demands placed on athletes at competitive levels.

Today, I provide mental performance coaching for female athletes who want to strengthen confidence, build resilience, and perform with greater mental clarity.

What Clients Are Saying

“Thank you for everything these past two years. You’ve been there for me through all of it, and I don’t know where I’d be without you. You gave me such a safe, containing space, and I can’t thank you enough. Your clients are lucky to have you!”
— Former Client & Collegiate Swimmer

“Sonja has impacted every aspect of my life for the better! She has enabled me to feel safe in my body, to find confidence in myself and my actions, and to develop an unshakable foundation of self-esteem.”
— Former Client & Competitive Gymnast

“As the pressure heated up, I could feel myself wavering. I had no idea transitioning to college athletics would be so much. But with your support and direction, not only did I not plummet, I soared. Thank you, Sonja—a million times over again.”
— Former Client & Collegiate Golfer

For Parents of Competitive Athletes

As a parent myself, I get it—You want the very best for your kid. Sometimes it can feel overwhelming to know the pressures that high performance can put on young athletes. What if I told you there are real, effective, and evidence-based ways to support their wellbeing while also supporting their athletic achievements? As parents, you play a vital role in supporting your athlete's well-being. Having support in place before pressure heats up or major transitions take place is not only proactive but can also be preventative and stabilizing.

Mental performance and resilience coaching provides structured tools that help athletes:

  • Manage pressure

  • Build confidence

  • Reduce anxiety

  • Maintain mental resilience during demanding seasons

* Parent collaboration is included when appropriate to ensure consistent support.

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Ready to Build Mental Strength That Lasts?

She Thrives Athletics ~

She Thrives Athletics ~